Having given so much time to algebra, we've neglected
several other areas of study that children often
loath, but the logic we apply is similar. To our
students we emphasize the importance of the skillset
they are developing, regardless of whether the
subject itself is of interest. Our tutors are
trained to teach children how a given skillset
could be invaluable to them, and we do so in terms
children and teens can understand. At the end
of the day, people only exercise their full capacity
for learning if they are engaged. If they're yawning,
we aren't doing our job.
FOCUS
Wandering minds roam the landscape of daydreams,
conjuring brilliant ideas and unique artisitic
possibilities. Unfortunately, wandering minds
also often miss the lesson plan or news of the
next day's pop quiz. If you or your child find
it hard to maintain focus during class, don't
run to your local pharmacopia just yet. There
may be a way to get your mind back on track which
doesn't promise side effects like dry mouth, nausea,
nose bleeds, bed-wetting and occassionally death.
First off, understand that a wandering mind is
not to be confused with a dull mind. Einstein
was a dropout, and his mind wandered at the speed
of light (literally). Had he slowed so that his
teachers could catch up, we'd likely have no theory
of relativity today. That aside, Einstein would
never have achieved anything if he didn't first
develop the ability to maintain focus.
The problem wandering minds often have is that
they find bits of information useless until synthesized
and incorporated into a larger logical framework.
The problem? True to their nature, wandering minds...
well, they wander. Consequently, they miss a few
breadcrumbs of information. This missing information
in turn prevents the larger framework from emerging,
and in the absense of this larger framework, all
the other bits of partially information seem random
and senseless. Think of this larger framework
as a pattern of dominoes, and then ask yourself
this: If that pattern were impossible to conceive
until those dominoes fell, how many missing dominoes
would it take to prevent that pattern from emerging?
Answer: Perhaps just one. So why would the wandering
mind allow itself to miss that one crucial piece
of information which, if put in place, could allow
all for a logical understanding of the whole?
The reason? Wandering minds are often attached
to strong egos--(egos which reguarly decide to
chart their own course rather than follow direction
during class). Thus, wandering minds are proud
minds, and as a character trait, proud minds are
inherently averse to scrutiny.
So what does the proud mind do after having grasped
an insufficient number of pieces to conceptualize
the whole? For fear of being labeled dumb, the
proud mind, rather than asking "dumb"
questions, pretends to know that which it does
not, and in so doing deprives itself of the opportunity
to learn.
At Tutors to You we specialize in helping wandering
minds get back on track. Our one on one tutoring
sessions are conducted in the privacy of your
own home, thus eliminating many of the factors
which in larger classrooms allow minds to stray
off course. In a one-on-one environment, when
a question is posed by the instructor, there is
no avoiding it. The wandering mind can't feign
distraction while searching its backpack for a
pencil. All questions posed in such close quarters
are the wandering mind's alone to answer. Nor
can the wandering mind pretend to know that which
it does not, because in a one-on-one environment,
the wandering mind will invariably be found out.
In time, the wandering mind will realize that
it doesn't have to worry about having its ignorance
put on public display. Nor will it have to worry
about being labeled or judged. There are no peers
to snicker, and no "cool" lunch table
from which to be evicted. If you or a loved one
fit the wandering mind profile, we can help. Need
a couple pieces to make sense of a puzzle?--that's
why we're here. After all, there's no shame in
asking questions. The only shame is in depriving
yourself of the answers.